rage

I posted to my website. I have a website? Good lord, better fill it with content.

This particular content is asking a question, and I’ll gladly take your responses here.
How does one warn others or even just talk about an Abuser without coming across as being a drama queen or having Survivor as your main identity?

Situation: I didn’t reach out to people about Corey because I didn’t think it was Proper or in-line with my world view. He then hurt other people. A lot.

Suggestions welcome.

(other than this, life is fucking fantastic)

1,352 thoughts on “rage

  1. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  2. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  3. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  4. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  5. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  6. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  7. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  8. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  9. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  10. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  11. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  12. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  13. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  14. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  15. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  16. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  17. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  18. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  19. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  20. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  21. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  22. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  23. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  24. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  25. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  26. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  27. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  28. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  29. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  30. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  31. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  32. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  33. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  34. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  35. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  36. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  37. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  38. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  39. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  40. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  41. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  42. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  43. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  44. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having so much trouble. I read your website and it hurts to see that you have been going through this. I’ve been there myself. I really feel for you.

    The best and hardest thing to do is to not be afraid in warning people about someone who is causing trouble. In short, just tell them.
    Pass the word on and don’t worry about what other people think. Let them be the judge of things, even if the outcome is not desired. If someone is causing that much trouble, don’t give ’em any chance to do it again.

    Be fair, very calm, factual, and to the point on why one should watch out for someone. Have easily to produce examples and evidence of what they have been up to. More often than not this is the best way of getting your point across without generating “drama”. Keep it to the facts with emotion over the situation in in check. Lots of emotion=perception of “drama”. As long as you aren’t overly emotional or seemingly focused on pushing the issue, it’s easier to take the facts as fact. In the if people can’t take a factual word then that’s their thing.

    So in short:
    -Tell it like it is without worry as to how people will take it.
    -Be cool about it, but don’t glaze over the issues to make things “soft”.
    -Don’t be overly emotional.
    -Present the facts as facts, with examples for backup. Don’t conjecture, don’t blame, don’t make it seem you have some kind of “agenda”.
    -Take a stand and don’t be afraid to make it known where you stand. Inform the people you tell why you stand here.
    -Be confident that people can make up their own minds and will have a mind to take in the facts as presented. Don’t worry about what they decide.
    -Be ready to ride the aftermath and be prepared for what may come. More often than not people take things as presented well, however it’s not always the case. Sometimes also it takes time for someone to realize the world around them and realize that maybe you were not blowing smoke up their skirts.

    That’s my suggestion on the matter.
    I really do hope it works out for the best with you Willow. Give me a call if you want to talk more.

  45. Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.

  46. Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.

  47. Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.

  48. Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.

  49. Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.

  50. Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.

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