I posted to my website. I have a website? Good lord, better fill it with content.
This particular content is asking a question, and I’ll gladly take your responses here.
How does one warn others or even just talk about an Abuser without coming across as being a drama queen or having Survivor as your main identity?
Situation: I didn’t reach out to people about Corey because I didn’t think it was Proper or in-line with my world view. He then hurt other people. A lot.
Suggestions welcome.
(other than this, life is fucking fantastic)
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.
Argh. That is really difficult; I’m sorry that you had to deal with it, and sorrier still that a lot of people fail to listen even when clear warnings are delivered. As far as Survivor as the main identity, I think how many other survivors the person knows will have a lot to do with that, as well as how well they know you. If they only know one person who’s talked openly about that sort of thing, they’re more likely to latch on. Ditto if it’s the only thing about you that they know. But if they know you as a robust person who happens to have had this thing happen to them, it’s a lot less likely to get you pigeonholed.