I posted to my website. I have a website? Good lord, better fill it with content.
This particular content is asking a question, and I’ll gladly take your responses here.
How does one warn others or even just talk about an Abuser without coming across as being a drama queen or having Survivor as your main identity?
Situation: I didn’t reach out to people about Corey because I didn’t think it was Proper or in-line with my world view. He then hurt other people. A lot.
Suggestions welcome.
(other than this, life is fucking fantastic)
Ugh, that’s such a tough question. I feel like talking about such things is stigmatized, but silence can be dangerous.
However, I warned a few people about an abusive pathological liar ex of mine, and some of those dumb broads dated him anyway, so I basically gave up. Maybe I shouldn’t have, but at a certain point it’s not your responsibility anymore.
Ugh, that’s such a tough question. I feel like talking about such things is stigmatized, but silence can be dangerous.
However, I warned a few people about an abusive pathological liar ex of mine, and some of those dumb broads dated him anyway, so I basically gave up. Maybe I shouldn’t have, but at a certain point it’s not your responsibility anymore.
Ugh, that’s such a tough question. I feel like talking about such things is stigmatized, but silence can be dangerous.
However, I warned a few people about an abusive pathological liar ex of mine, and some of those dumb broads dated him anyway, so I basically gave up. Maybe I shouldn’t have, but at a certain point it’s not your responsibility anymore.
Ugh, that’s such a tough question. I feel like talking about such things is stigmatized, but silence can be dangerous.
However, I warned a few people about an abusive pathological liar ex of mine, and some of those dumb broads dated him anyway, so I basically gave up. Maybe I shouldn’t have, but at a certain point it’s not your responsibility anymore.
Ugh, that’s such a tough question. I feel like talking about such things is stigmatized, but silence can be dangerous.
However, I warned a few people about an abusive pathological liar ex of mine, and some of those dumb broads dated him anyway, so I basically gave up. Maybe I shouldn’t have, but at a certain point it’s not your responsibility anymore.
Ugh, that’s such a tough question. I feel like talking about such things is stigmatized, but silence can be dangerous.
However, I warned a few people about an abusive pathological liar ex of mine, and some of those dumb broads dated him anyway, so I basically gave up. Maybe I shouldn’t have, but at a certain point it’s not your responsibility anymore.
Ugh, that’s such a tough question. I feel like talking about such things is stigmatized, but silence can be dangerous.
However, I warned a few people about an abusive pathological liar ex of mine, and some of those dumb broads dated him anyway, so I basically gave up. Maybe I shouldn’t have, but at a certain point it’s not your responsibility anymore.
Ugh, that’s such a tough question. I feel like talking about such things is stigmatized, but silence can be dangerous.
However, I warned a few people about an abusive pathological liar ex of mine, and some of those dumb broads dated him anyway, so I basically gave up. Maybe I shouldn’t have, but at a certain point it’s not your responsibility anymore.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.
You have to be willing to reach out to protect/inform others, regardless of how you may be seen from then on, honestly. One will likely be seen in various negative ways–just look at all the support for Chris Brown and insults hurled at Rhianna by various parties–but if it’s to protect/help others, then that’s what matters.
It’s our job as a society to de-stigmatize those who come forward to speak out on domestic abuse/violence, and we’re sucking at it. But it takes courage to speak out, and courage to deal with any fall out.