I posted to my website. I have a website? Good lord, better fill it with content.
This particular content is asking a question, and I’ll gladly take your responses here.
How does one warn others or even just talk about an Abuser without coming across as being a drama queen or having Survivor as your main identity?
Situation: I didn’t reach out to people about Corey because I didn’t think it was Proper or in-line with my world view. He then hurt other people. A lot.
Suggestions welcome.
(other than this, life is fucking fantastic)
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.
I don’t know. My experience is that it can be very difficult to warn others in a way that is useful, whatever it is that is going on. It certainly seems like a simple enough idea: If this person has hurt this list of people in this way, the chances are they will also hurt you in this way. If that’s okay with you, move along. If not, proceed with caution.
Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that silence only serves the abusers. If you are silent, you are consenting to this perpetuation of abuse. If you pipe up and make a fuss, some people will interpret this as drama or foist off their impression of What Survivors Are on you but maybe someone will actually hear you and learn something.