I posted to my website. I have a website? Good lord, better fill it with content.
This particular content is asking a question, and I’ll gladly take your responses here.
How does one warn others or even just talk about an Abuser without coming across as being a drama queen or having Survivor as your main identity?
Situation: I didn’t reach out to people about Corey because I didn’t think it was Proper or in-line with my world view. He then hurt other people. A lot.
Suggestions welcome.
(other than this, life is fucking fantastic)
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
It was very hard to talk about what happened to me, and it still is. When I do, I get the big sympathy and the hugs and everything, but I don’t care about that. I’m not fragile, I didn’t break. I left him. He was the drama queen, not me. He spread rumors and lies, and I totally deleted him from my life. I had to delete some mutual friends as well, but that’s the way it goes.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.
I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.
Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.
And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.