rage

I posted to my website. I have a website? Good lord, better fill it with content.

This particular content is asking a question, and I’ll gladly take your responses here.
How does one warn others or even just talk about an Abuser without coming across as being a drama queen or having Survivor as your main identity?

Situation: I didn’t reach out to people about Corey because I didn’t think it was Proper or in-line with my world view. He then hurt other people. A lot.

Suggestions welcome.

(other than this, life is fucking fantastic)

1,352 thoughts on “rage

  1. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  2. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  3. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  4. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  5. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  6. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  7. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  8. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  9. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  10. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  11. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  12. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  13. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  14. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  15. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  16. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  17. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  18. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  19. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  20. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  21. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  22. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  23. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  24. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  25. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  26. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  27. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  28. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  29. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  30. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  31. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  32. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  33. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  34. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  35. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  36. I’m trying to give up giving a neutral presentation of the facts. It’s impossible anyway, and it detracts from the message. I just assume the person I’m talking to understands we all have our points of view.

    Given that, I present the data I have available and I point to other people who are likely to share my opinion.

    And then I let the chips fall where they may. I try to lead a low-drama life ordinarily, and I just assume people will figure that out.

  37. sometimes “drama” is code for “transgressing gendered social expectations and refusing to toe the shitty status quo line”. this is one of those times, i think.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

    • This is my feeling on the topic as well. It seems impossible to say anything against someone you’ve had an abusive relationship or interaction with and not have somebody claiming it’s “just a personality conflict” or “they would never do that” or “well, he hasn’t done anything to me.” It’s important to talk about these people, regardless of the reactions. If it keeps one person from being abused by the creep in question, that’s a good thing.

  38. sometimes “drama” is code for “transgressing gendered social expectations and refusing to toe the shitty status quo line”. this is one of those times, i think.

  39. sometimes “drama” is code for “transgressing gendered social expectations and refusing to toe the shitty status quo line”. this is one of those times, i think.

  40. sometimes “drama” is code for “transgressing gendered social expectations and refusing to toe the shitty status quo line”. this is one of those times, i think.

  41. sometimes “drama” is code for “transgressing gendered social expectations and refusing to toe the shitty status quo line”. this is one of those times, i think.

  42. sometimes “drama” is code for “transgressing gendered social expectations and refusing to toe the shitty status quo line”. this is one of those times, i think.

  43. sometimes “drama” is code for “transgressing gendered social expectations and refusing to toe the shitty status quo line”. this is one of those times, i think.

  44. sometimes “drama” is code for “transgressing gendered social expectations and refusing to toe the shitty status quo line”. this is one of those times, i think.

  45. sometimes “drama” is code for “transgressing gendered social expectations and refusing to toe the shitty status quo line”. this is one of those times, i think.

  46. sometimes “drama” is code for “transgressing gendered social expectations and refusing to toe the shitty status quo line”. this is one of those times, i think.

  47. sometimes “drama” is code for “transgressing gendered social expectations and refusing to toe the shitty status quo line”. this is one of those times, i think.

  48. sometimes “drama” is code for “transgressing gendered social expectations and refusing to toe the shitty status quo line”. this is one of those times, i think.

  49. sometimes “drama” is code for “transgressing gendered social expectations and refusing to toe the shitty status quo line”. this is one of those times, i think.

  50. sometimes “drama” is code for “transgressing gendered social expectations and refusing to toe the shitty status quo line”. this is one of those times, i think.

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